Reno, TX Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

The good news is that the marriage is not over until the judge signs a final decree of divorce. So you will make it to ten years.  There's a minimum waiting period after filing a divorce of sixty days after the filing date. Plus you are going to be entitled to your share of the property whether or not you have been married ten years.  If you are asking about military retirement benefits you are entitled to a share after even a short marriage. The ten years gets you the advantage of being paid your portion of husband's retirement directly from DFAS. The ten year mark is also relevant in eligibility for spousal maintenance after the divorce. I recommend you check with the district clerk in your county to see if a divorce has been filed. Yes he needs to have you served or ask you to sign a waiver, but people are sneaky sometimes.  

I am unsure of your question. If the bank says she is not a co-signor, then she cannot remove funds, so there would be no problem. However, if you are in the middle of a divorce any monies earned during the marriage are community property and subject to division by the court, upon a court order, the characterization of property as community or separate will not happen until you get to a final trial date or come to a final Judgment with a Settlement Agreement (not just temporary orders at a hearing). This is the reason that the automatic restraining orders listed on your Summons go into effect immediately (neither of you may use, dispose of, encumber any assets except in the ORDINARY purposes of everyday life (normal living expenses) without the court's approval.