Davis, CA Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

There is no way to prevent a divorce if the other spouse wants one; New York was the last state to require a finding of "fault" for a divorce to be granted. Now, if one spouse seeks a divorce they may pursue it, regardless of the wishes of the other spouse. With regard to your citizenship, if your husband sponsored you to come into this country you may be eligible for a period of spousal support based upon that sponsorship, in addition to your rights for spousal support under Louisiana law. (This is an additional means or reason for requesting support, not an additional amount.) There is no way to force your husband to "get you citizenship," but he may be financially liable for you until you can support yourself or remarry, depending on several factors.

I’m sorry to hear about the challenges you’re facing. While the situation is emotionally charged, it’s important to focus on the facts and your legal rights. Here’s what you need to know about their threats: Wedding Costs:In California, the cost of the wedding is generally not something either party can sue for after a marriage. Weddings are considered gifts, and courts typically don’t allow reimbursement for voluntarily incurred expenses. Money Given During the Marriage:California is a community property state, meaning that assets and debts acquired during the marriage are typically shared equally. However, this doesn’t include gifts or expenses that were willingly provided during the marriage. If your husband gave you money, it would not typically be recoverable unless it was clearly documented as a loan. Defamation or Slander:If their accusations cross into false and damaging claims about your character that can be proven as untrue, you may have grounds for a defamation claim. Consult an attorney to explore whether their behavior meets the legal threshold for slander or libel. Legal Recourse:Your husband and his family can threaten to sue, but most of these claims would not hold up in court. However, given the emotional nature of the situation, it’s wise to protect yourself legally by documenting all interactions and seeking advice from a family law attorney. Although I’m a Maryland divorce lawyer, I frequently counsel clients to focus on what’s legally enforceable versus emotionally charged threats. In your case, a California divorce attorney would be the best resource to guide you through the process and ensure your rights are protected.

It appears that you are not in Colorado, so you need to get a better answer to your question from an attorney in the state where you have file for divorce. Generally, your claim of abandonment would have little impact on the final settlement here in Colorado, but that could be different in your state. The ultimate financial settlement will be based on your states principles for a fair distribution of the marital property; in all likelihood the portion of your military retired pay considered to have been earned during the marriage will be subject to division according the specific rules in your state.