Eaton, CO Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

Taking your name off the loan is dependent on the loan company. If you both signed it, then only the loan company can remove you and very often they won't agree. Talk to your attorney about what is going on.

You have to present a QDRO to the company. This QDRO has to be prepared as a separate document in your divorce and signed by both parties and the court. Then, that is submitted to the company. Once they accept it, you are guaranteed receiving your share when your ex retires.

First, if he controls the money and always has, he will likely be responsible for your attorney fees.  You should definitely consult an attorney.  The question is - in what state should you consult an attorney? Jurisdiction (what state the divorce can happen in) is determined by where the parties live, not by where the marriage or wedding occured.  How long have you lived in Colorado?  How long has he lived in Texas?  Do you have children?  In Colorado, you must have resided here, with an intent to live here permanently, for at least 90 days.  If that is the case, we could certainly help you.  If not, I am not licensed in Texas and you would need to contact a lawyer there. As to the prenuptial agreement, it is only enforceable regarding spousal support to the extent it is not grossly unfair to you.  The situation you describe sounds like it IS grossly unfair to you and can likely be challenged. I strongly suggest you consult an attorney because the issues are complex and he has a much strong negotiating position.