Eads, CO Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

Nothing is affected by cheating. California law says equal division of property and it does not affect support or custody unless some problem with the person, sex offender, alcoholic and drinking in front of your children.

Get copies of all the financial information you can, account numbers, most recent statement even if it's old, tax returns for the last three years. You are entitled to part of his retirement. Knowing the name and address of his employer will allow an attorney to get his retirement etc. info from his employer. If you want out, see a lawyer and start the process. You can't do anything preemptively other than knowing the extent of assets and debts. Sitting down and talking to him about things like assets is what functional families do periodically so you can do that without any discussion of divorce. If something happens to him, you should have things like passwords to access all the accounts. That in itself is a reasonable and ordinary discussion.

You probably should file for invalidity of marriage to ensure your planned marriage is valid without question. You could get a copy of his prior divorce decree as evidence that your 2006 marriage was not valid.