Auburndale, FL Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

You should consult with a family law attorney in your area as soon as possible. Many attorneys offer a free consultation, and some local Bar Associations have a free or low cost referral program to attorneys who may be able to assist you at little or no cost. Also, check to see if your County has a legal aid society, who generally can help you with locating free or low cost assistance, or can provide it to you themselves.

If there was no court order approving your "addendum" it probably isn't enforceable and it may be difficult to determine an appropriate remedy. To split a 401k, the law requires that there be a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) issued by the Court. If that was never done, you need to go back to court and attempt to correct all the mistakes that have been made by failing to consult an attorney when you negotiated your "uncontested" divorce.

With regard to the inheritance, that would not be a marital asset unless your husband deposited the inherited money in a joint account with you. If he keeps the money separate, it will not be a marital asset and not subject to division.  If his inheritance is substantial and results in income to him, for example interest or dividends, that could be considered in determining his ability to pay alimony. As for the house, normally neither spouse is required to sign over the house, and that should not be necessary in order to list the house for sale, you both simply have to sign the listing agreement.