Arcade, NY Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

In New York, a spouse is entitled to the greater of $50,000.00 or 1/3 of the net estate of a deceased spouse.  The net estate will include items such as joint bank accounts, in trust for accounts, retirement accounts and other assets specified by statute.  This requirement can be circumvented only by a signed contract between spouses. Traditionally, pre-nuptial agreements provide for the parties to "contract-out" of the provisions of the EPTL as do separation agreements. Even though the entry of a judgment of divorce automatically disinherits each spouse from each other, that period of time between the date a final divorce settlement is inked and the papers are actually submitted to the court clerk, approved and signed by a judge can be agonizingly long and the parties should be protected by a provision in the agreement that each waives his or her right of election under the law. In waiving inheritance rights from one's spouse, very basic and important legal rights are being conceded. In order for such a waiver to stand up , both parties should be represented by independent competent counsel to insure that they did this while on a level legal playing field. Lawyers experienced in matrimonial law should be engaged to prepare and supervise such an agreement which should contain specific recitations as to just what rights are given up and which must be predicated upon the parties providing detailed disclosure of their personal assets to each other in order to insure its viability in the face of a challenge. An experienced attorney should be consulted regarding your rights in this area. -Alfred Polizzotto, III

First, immediately call up all your credit card companies and remove him as an authorized user, and tell them to cancel the cards and issue you new ones with different numbers. Then, tell him he owes you the money he took as cash advances, and that you want it back immediately. Then kick him out. Since he's got a kid, give him till the end of the school year, if necessary. Then file for divorce. You say he's verbally abusive- if you're afraid of him, and you have grounds, get an order of protection in criminal or family court.  Since New York has no fault divorce, divorce makes more sense than annulment. You don't need a reason to get a divorce, but you do need to prove grounds for an annulment. It probably won't be very time consuming because without your credit cards it's doubtful that your gold digger hubby will be able to afford a good lawyer. Go with a divorce, not an annulment.