About Sarah Stark Oldham

Sally is consistently recognized as one of the top matrimonial attorneys in Connecticut in a variety of peer review surveys.

Sally represents clients in the negotiation and litigation of sophisticated, complex and high-asset family law matters. Her practice includes all areas of family law, including divorce, alimony, child support, and property division. She often analyzes complex financial holdings, closely held businesses, and compensation packages in order to achieve an equitable division of assets and income. Sally helps clients address the financial consequences of divorce while recognizing the psychological impact on those involved.

In addition, Sally has extensive experience resolving, and litigating when necessary, challenging and emotionally charged child custody and relocation disputes. Her seminal advocacy in the case of Ireland v. Ireland redefined the rights of parents and children in relocation disputes.

Sally has lectured on a variety of topics including division of stock options, distributing complex executive compensation packages in divorce, the impact of addiction in custody battles, and the validity of prenuptial agreements in a world where most couples cohabit before marriage. She is also co-author of Connecticut Family Law and Practice, Volumes 7, 8 and 8A, a handbook for lawyers and judges on domestic relations matters in Connecticut.

Prior to practicing law, Sally worked for more than a decade as a psychologist in private practice and as a school psychologist in various Connecticut schools. This experience early in her career affords her certain insights and approaches that differ from those of other matrimonial lawyers.

Sally has been practicing family law with Arnold Rutkin since 1994. From 1988-1994, she practiced at the law firm of Day, Berry and Howard in Stamford, now known as Day Pitney. The practice of law is in Sally’s blood. Her grandfather was a judge, her father was a lawyer in a major New York firm, and one of her sisters, her brother and her daughter are lawyers.

Sally is a private pilot, licensed since 1984. She has two grown children and five grandchildren.

 

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Areas of Law

  • Family Law
  • Litigation

Practice Details

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    Payment & Cost Features
    Fixed hourly rates
    Accepted Credit Cards
    American Express
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    Visa
  • Firm Information
    Position
    Partner
    Firm Name
    Rutkin, Oldham & Griffin, L.L.C.
  • Representative Cases & Transactions
    Cases
    Wendt v. Wendt, 59 Conn. App. 656 (2000), cert. denied 255 Conn. 918 (2000)
    Irel
    v. Irel
    , 246 Conn. 413 (1998)
    Hines v. St. Vincent's Medical Center 232 Conn. 632, 657 A2d 578 (1995).
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Experience

  • Bar Admission & Memberships
    Admissions
    1988, Connecticut
    1989 U.S. District Court, Southern District of New York
    Memberships
    Connecticut Bar Association (Member, Executive Committee, Family Law Section, 1993
    Treasurer, 1999-2000
    Secretary, 2000-2001
    Continuing Legal Education, 2001-2002
    Chair-Elect, 2002-2003
    Chair, 2003-2004
    Co-Chair, Post-Majority Support Committee, Family Law Section, 1993-1994)
    Fairfield County Association
    American Bar Association
    American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (Member
    Chair, National Test Committee, 2005-2010)
    Connecticut Chapter AAML (Member
    Board of Managers 2006 - Present)
    International Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (Member
    Board of Managers, USA Chapter, 2007 - Present)
    Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (Member, 2012 - Present)
  • Education & Certifications
    Law School
    University of Connecticut
    Class of 1988
    J.D.
    Other Education
    Wesleyan University
    B.S.
  • Personal Details & History
    Age
    Born in 1951
    Mineola, NY, March 5, 1951
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Attorneys FAQs

  • What year was this attorney first admitted to the bar?
    Sarah Stark Oldham was admitted in 1988 to the State of Connecticut.
  • Is this attorney Martindale-Hubbell Peer Review rated?
    Yes, Sarah Stark Oldham has a 5.0 Peer Rating from Martindale-Hubbell.
  • Does this attorney accept major credit cards?
    Yes, Sarah Stark Oldham will accept Visa, MasterCard and American Express.
  • How many attorneys are in this law firm?
    Rutkin, Oldham & Griffin, L.L.C. has 5 attorneys at this location.
  • What law school did this attorney attend?
    Sarah Stark Oldham attended University of Connecticut.