Vernon, NJ Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

If you buy her out, at whatever price, and she signs off on the deed and the mortgage, she cannot come back to you later and look for more money.  You were not married, and do not have to get divorced, therefore you can make what ever deal you want, and she cannot challenge that later.

Its really difficult to give a range because you would need to give more facts about the case.  Is there a custody issue?  Division of assets?  Negotiation of alimony?  How long was the marriage?  Where are the parties living now.  Many people say they have an "easy" divorce and then wind up litigating every issue. we usually start with a $5000 retainer, but under certain circumstances, ask for more or less.  If you would like to contact my office, we can discuss your matter. 

The short answer is yes, he can get his mail. It sounds like you are more concerned that he is continuing to pick up his mail from the mailbox so that he can monitor you and whether you are home. If that is your concern, then I suggest that you can ask him directly or through counsel to put in place an address change with the post office so that he is not coming around the house, since it makes you uncomfortable. Alternatively, you can tell him that you will put together all mail addressed to him and leave it in the mailbox on a specific day each week so that he can pick it up.  If his actions become overly antagonistic or become harassing in nature, then have your lawyer communicate with his lawyer, telling him that you view his actions as in the nature of harassment and that if he does not change same, you will consider relief from the court system. If you do suggest that his actions cross the line into harassment, make sure that your lawyer details the actions constituting the harassment so that he cannot claim that he was unaware of it. But harassment has to be more than him simply taking his mail from the mailbox.