Vernon, NJ Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

The critical issue is residency status. Many people maintain dual citizenship and have homes elsewhere in the world, but those elements alone do not confer jurisdiction on a court system. In New Jersey ( with minor exceptions), to file a complaint for divorce, you must be a resident of the state, physically live in New Jersey, and engage in actions to show that you intend New Jersey to be your primary place of residence. Simply having a home in New Jersey and maintaining US citizenship is insufficient for jurisdiction purposes. 

You really need to contact a matrimonial or family lawyer to help you sort out some of these issues by way of enforcement orders to get your ex-wife to comply with the existing orders.  If she "says" a judge told her something - she is wrong.  The Judge would have written an order, and just becuase you did not comply with child support doesn't mean she is absolved of paying the entire $150,000.

If you are the father of the child, you can request a copy of the birthcertificate from the other state, you have a legal right to it.  However, just becuase your name is or is not on the birthcertificate doesn't mean you are (or are not) the biological father of the child.