Pyote, TX Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

If your ex sues you for the payment of the attorney's fees, you will probably lose. If you decree ordered you to pay the fees, you're obligated to pay them. Have you tried taking out a loan to pay off the ex and keep her from holding this over your head? I would strongly consider taking the signed divorce decree to an attorney for review and to figure out what your options are. Perhaps you can negotiate the fee repayment with a close reading of the decree and the help of a good lawyer.

I would contact the Plan Administrator for your prior Husband's Pension. Every Pension has their own set of rules. As a general rule, however, if your Husband did not elect to create a 'separate estate' for you under his Pension (there would have been a cost for this), then his Pension would have died with him. Pensions do not operate like 401k's.

In order to enforce a court order by contempt of court, the order typically must be signed and the party against whom the order is being enforced must have actual notice of its contents.In divorce cases, the written temporary order memorializing the associate judge's rulings at the temporary order hearing is typically prepared by the petitioner/movant's attorney and circulated to the respondent's attorney to be approved as to form or to make any objections within a couple of days after the temporary order hearing. If there are no objections to the form of the order, it is typically signed by the judge within a week of the hearing.  A temporary visitation order can also be enforced by means other than contempt of court, for example by giving make-up visitation time to the parent deprived of a scheduled visit.Sometimes, for strategic reasons, it is unwise to ask the court to strictly enforce a court order against the other party because the violation itself might be evidence of something you want to show the court about the other party that may enhance your case or weaken their case.