Point Pleasant, NJ Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

Thank you for your question. You are in a predicament for certain.  You’ve invested 5 years of your life into a relationship that is tainted and you still have the stamina to resurrect the trust and love you have in him.  The good news is that he is in therapy and therefore he recognizes his foibles.  As a legal matter, the marriage document does not make you a joint debtor unless you co-sign or otherwise agree to assume those liabilities.  A pre-nuptial agreement is the way to protect assets for sure.  If you have significant assets you should get a family lawyer to prepare such a document prior to your marriage.  If not, be sure to maintain separate bank accounts and DO NOT co-sign any loans and/or assume any debts he has already incurred.  Ultimately should he default in any payments, the creditor will pursue his assets including wage garnishments and bank levies.  But it cannot and will not seek payment from you.  So remember to keep a separate checking and savings.  I sincerely hope your marriage will be a success otherwise.  Just so you know every married couple has issues and debt.  You are not alone but at least your husband to be is seeking therapy.  Be sure you are included in that!  Best wishes.  

Thank you for your question. As long as the funds are kept separate and not mingled with or changed into marital property, it will belong to you.  I suggest that you contact an experienced attorney who can analyze your situation and give you advise on how to protect your rights. I hope this information was helpful to you.   

Thank you for your question. I understand how difficult this time must be for you.  The short answer is that provided one party has been living in New Jersey for at least a year, you can file for divorce in New Jersey.  However, there certainly can be specifics involved and each matter is different.  You need specific answers to protect yourself and I would strongly suggest that you schedule a consultation with a family law attorney who has experience with New Jersey divorces, so that you can understand the implications for you before filing for divorce.  I hope you found this information helpful.