El Cenizo, TX Divorce Law Firms & Lawyers

No experienced attorney is going to give you absolute answers to your questions - there are too many variables. I suggest you consult a competent attorney to review the details of your situation and advise you.

You should get a California attorney to help you find out if you were divorced.  If you remarried while still married, you are committing bigamy.  Most of the time no one prosecutes.  But your current "husband" could raise it in your divorce, because your claim to community property is dependent on your being married.  You cannot be married to two people at the same time so your second marriage would not be valid. It would become valid upon your divorce to the first husband (if you are not already divorced from him). This is for general educational purposes only.

If it has been less than four years since the decree you might be able to overturn some of the orders, but regardless of how long it has been you can modify the orders with respect to the children at any time.