Answered on Jun 05th, 2015 at 11:02 AM
The question for the court in a dispute about custody or placement (not the same thing) is the best interest of the child or children. You should really retain an experienced family law attorney, who will know how to bring helpful information before the court. If a divorce is started, you can seek a temporary order near the very beginning of the process, which will set rules for these, and many other, things, until the divorce is concluded. Good Luck.