About Carolyn M. Grimes

Carolyn Grimes is a partner in the firm, practicing in all areas of family law including divorce, spousal support, child custody, child support, equitable distribution, retirement issues, and prenuptial agreements, among other areas. She practices in all of the Circuit and Juvenile and Domestic Relations Courts in Northern Virginia and has argued before the Court of Appeals. She has lectured on family law topics ranging from custody to retirement issues, including military, federal, civilian and Foreign Service retirement issues, for various organizations in the Commonwealth. In addition to traditional litigation, Ms. Grimes practices law in the collaborative law model. She is also a mediator herself.

Consistently named a ‘Best Lawyer’ (from 2014-2023), Ms. Grimes has also been honored as an AV Preeminent (2001-2022) and Gold Client Champion (2019-2021) by Martindale-Hubbell. In addition, she’s been named a Top Lawyer by Northern Virginia Magazine Magazine (2011, 2015, 2017, 2019, 2020, 2021), a Top Attorney by Arlington Magazine (2019-2021), and a Top Attorney by Washingtonian Magazine (2015) as well as many other top attorney designations— see full list below. Ms. Grimes actively serves the community as well. She was the 2009 and 2006 President of the Board of Directors for Legal Services of Northern Virginia (LSNV), has served on its Board for many years and has performed many hours of pro bono work for the organization. She is a Past President of the Alexandria Bar Association, for which she has co-chaired the Pro Bono and Community Service Committee and chaired the “Beat the Odds” Program, a scholarship program for youths who have overcome adversity. She also participated in the American Bar Association program offering legal assistance to victims of the September 11, 2001, attacks.

In addition to traditional settlement and litigation practices, Ms. Grimes also practices in the area of collaborative law. Collaborative law is a process of alternative dispute resolution designed to keep the parties out of court. Counsel who have been trained in the collaborative law process and other professionals, such as financial professionals and custody experts, engage in a series of meetings with the clients designed to develop creative solutions to the issues in a divorce and agree on peaceful, practical solutions. Ms. Grimes has been trained in the collaborative model since 2006 and practices in this model as well as more traditional settlement or litigation models. She is also a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP).

Ms. Grimes is also a mediator and can act as the neutral mediator for both parties. Mediation is also an alternative dispute resolution process designed to have parties agree outside of court proceedings. If you are interested in using Ms. Grimes as a mediator, please contact our office. One party may initiate the contact to set up the appointment but as a mediator, she needs to meet with both parties together for the mediation process.

 

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Spousal Support
Posted by Thomas
July 29, 2021
Hired Attorney Carolyn M. Grimes

Carolyn handled a modification of my spousal support agreement. It was not a large matter but her professionalism was evident as if it were. From her first explanation of the considerations and options, through the negotiation of the modification and the filing of court papers, she was consistently excellent and always immediately responsive to my concerns. I would unhesitating recommend her to anyone needing domestic relations law advice on any matter, large or small.

 
Child Custody
Posted by anonymous
August 17, 2019
Hired Attorney Carolyn M. Grimes

Carolyn has been my lawyer through a long and heart-wrenching custody battle. This, of course, can be the most difficult and often frightening process a parent can go through. She was the anchor I needed, walking me through clearly my options and being an effective voice for me and my child in court. I could not recommend Carolyn more highly.

 
Family Law
Posted by anonymous
August 09, 2019
Hired Attorney Carolyn M. Grimes

Carolyn was quite simply the most effective communicator when handling my family matters. She knew how to efficiently communicate to me, directly communicate to opposing parties, and clearly communicate any potential obstacles - ethical or otherwise. Carolyn's ethical approach to her practice has resulted in a number of positive outcomes For my family, for which I am forever grateful. I would wholeheartedly recommend her for any client.

 
Family Law
Posted by anonymous
October 22, 2012
Hired Attorney Carolyn M. Grimes

Carolyn was extremely helpful, efficient and detailed in dealing with my divorce and child custody and support issues. The case went on for several years due to issues between my ex-husband and myself. Carolyn offered expert advise and positioned me for the best possible settlement. She was always upfront and honest with me about what I was and was not entitled to and what to expect when dealing with my ex and his attorney. I have and continue to recommend her to friends dealing with the same.

 
Family Law
Posted by anonymous
October 18, 2012
Hired Attorney Carolyn M. Grimes

Excellent legal counsel and advocacy throughout my separation and divorce process. Since she is highly respected by her peers as a very smart and capable attorney, she was able to successfully represent me and my child’s interests. Highly recommended.

Family Law
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September 18, 2012
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Areas of Law

  • Family Law 2
    • Child Custody
    • Child Support
  • Alternative Dispute Resolution 1
    • Mediation
  • Other 4
    • Divorce and Separation
    • Retirement
    • Pre-Nuptial Agreements
    • Military Divorce Foreign Service Divorce

Practice Details

  • Payment Information
    Payment & Cost Features
    Fixed hourly rates
    Accepted Credit Cards
    American Express
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    Visa
  • Firm Information
    Position
    Partner
    Firm Name
    Friedman, Grimes, Meinken & Leischner PLLC
  • Representative Cases & Transactions
    Cases
    Nkopchieu v. Minlend, 59 Va.App. 299 (2011).
  • Pro Bono Services
    Time Spent on Pro Bono Work: 10%

    Carolyn Grimes is a strong supporter of pro bono work for herself and members of the firm, in fact, it is required at the firm, as is community service work. She serves on a number of Boards of entities which perform pro bono and community service work, including Legal Services of Northern Virginia.

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Experience

  • Bar Admission & Memberships
    Admissions
    1991, Virginia
    Memberships
    Alexandria (President
    Immediate Past President
    Treasurer
    Board of Directors, 1999-2006
    President, 2004-2005), Fairfax and American Bar Associations
    Virginia State Bar (Member, Bar Council, 2011-)
    Virginia Bar Association (Member, Community Service Council)
    Northern Virginia Women Attorneys Association
    Virginia Women's Attorney Association
    The Association of Trial Lawyers of America
    Virginia State Bar Committee Fee Dispute Resolution.
  • Education & Certifications
    Law School
    George Mason University School of Law
    Class of 1991
    J.D.
    Other Education
    Johns Hopkins University
    Class of 1985
    B.A.

    Georgetown Law Center
    Class of 2000
    Graduate Law Certificate

    Georgetown Law Center
    Class of 2000
    Employee Benefits Law
  • Personal Details & History
    Age
    Born in 1963
    Troy, New York, September 20, 1963

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Partner at Friedman, Grimes, Meinken & Leischner PLLC
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500 Montgomery Street, Suite 575Alexandria, VA 22314U.S.A.

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    Yes, Carolyn M. Grimes has a 4.4 Peer Rating from Martindale-Hubbell.
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    Yes, Carolyn M. Grimes has a 4.8 Client Rating from Martindale-Hubbell.
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    Friedman, Grimes, Meinken & Leischner PLLC has 8 attorneys at this location.
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    Carolyn M. Grimes attended George Mason University School of Law.
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    Friedman, Grimes, Meinken & Leischner PLLC was established in 2015.